Family Creativity: Dare to Be Different
By Mr. Wong Chiu Man, Director at Wan Chai Integrated Family Service Centre, St. James' Settlement
Why do we work so hard every day? Everyone has different goals and values, and what we "want" and "need" varies. After working hard, we all need a place to rest and recharge to continue our journey. Home is our refueling station and safe haven. When you get home, do you just want to collapse into bed, or does another set of tasks begin? Managing personal chores, caring for family members, and handling endless household tasks—does this define life? How can we break the cycle and bring color to family life, enhancing relationships?
Life can be oppressive, and we often get caught up in routines, mistakenly believing we control our lives while missing opportunities to express ourselves and build relationships. To truly live within limited time and space, we need the courage to break out of comfort zones, recognize our limitations, and creatively seek breakthroughs. Daring to challenge life's norms and restrictions can lead to different ways of living.
Breaking through doesn't require drastic changes; it can start with small steps. Reevaluate your family's routine, find areas for variation, and add new elements and colors to life. Creativity isn't about creating something from nothing or seeking complete innovation; it's about transforming everyday experiences to bring surprises. Focus on observing your family's needs and thoughts to respond thoughtfully. For example, surprise your family with special snacks, prepare small gifts as rewards, or plan relaxing nature outings. Instead of a packed schedule, set aside a whole day for rest, which can be a refreshing change in a busy life. Life isn't just about work, money, fame, and status; it also includes physical and mental health, family relationships, and contributing to society. Coming home to enjoy solitude, family joy, creating irreplaceable memories, or engaging in community development can become valuable "assets" in life.
